like can we talk about how this entire culture has made me and so many other trans women feel rly shitty for existing at all let alone daring to feel that we’re worthy of feeling loved like the fact that there’s this whole thing of straight men needing the trans women they love to be a secret is so forced into our heads that we end up feeling that way about ourselves and it’s so fucked up and ugh the shame the SHAME no more shame ffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff