The Hind End of Space

zjemptv:

It’s okay. I know a lot of people who just want to be able to blend in, not have it be an issue, and not deal with odd looks from people or wonder if people are second-guessing your gender even as they’re seemingly polite. That’s a motivation I’ve heard from a lot of stealth people. That’s legitimate and it’s a real thing and I totally understand it; not wanting to be seen as a “man” was a big part of my social dysphoria. Nobody has to “pass”, nobody has to be stealth - but nobody has to be out, either. As always, people should do whatever they feel they need to do to take care of themselves.