6714) Most men treat me with hatred, hostility or violence. And even the men who have claimed to accept or love me ended up being a secret racist, bigot, or transphobic asshole. So every time I hear the dreaded phrase "but not all men are like that" I feel like laughing. Because I'm yet to meet a man who ISN'T "like that". I want to believe there are good men out there; that I will someday find one who loves and accepts me for who I am. But for now, I'm going to avoid men for my own safety.