“Bad Questions to Ask a Transsexual: The Director’s Cut (by CalperniaAddams)”

This woman is adorable, and she addresses why you really shouldn’t ask some of the burning questions on your mind in a really… ah, comprehensive way.  

She’s mildly abrasive about it, but you can’t really blame her- these are clearly questions she’s dealt with for way longer than anybody should have, so keep that in mind.